Do souls live in a cemetery? Can children see the souls of the dead? How many days after death the soul is at home

Valentina, Voronezh

Do the dead really see us and feel prayer?

Father, I read that the dead see us and feel prayer. But why is there no news from them until 40 days? Due to the fault of the neurosurgeon, after the operation, I lost my only son, Alexander, 39 years old. I mourn him very much, I calm down when I read the Psalter, all the rest of the time there are memories of him, despondency and tears. I read the Bible - Ecclesiastes, ch. 9(4-10). God says, "Ask and it will be given." I pray for my son, but there is silence from there, there is no answer to my prayers, requests and questions. And I have such pain and longing in my heart. I order masses for the repose, memorial services, I ordered several magpies in churches and monasteries, they read the Psalter about him in the monastery, I pray myself ... And no answer. Why? Answer, please, father, I do not understand anything.

Good health, Valentina. First of all, I would like to humanly try to calm you down, at least through an answer to help you drive away despondency and longing. You, being a Christian, and without me, are probably well aware that the Lord controls everything in this world. There is a lot of evidence of this, and the very first is in the Creed: "I believe in one God the Father Almighty." Nothing can happen in this world or in the next without His will. Also in the Gospel there are many places about birds that will not fall without the will of the Heavenly Father (Luke 12:6-7).

Based on the above evidence, we cannot say that your son died due to the mistake of a neurosurgeon. He died primarily because the Lord allowed him to pass from this world to another. And directly on earth, the mistake of a neurosurgeon was only a “tool” in the hands of the wise providence of God. If you look from such an angle, then a person will inevitably humble himself before the providence of God (after all, God wanted and allowed this, and not man, God who is Love, who never makes mistakes and knows exactly what is useful for us and when), and therefore, calm down a bit. Having calmed down, a person will begin to think more clearly and pray more soberly, without scattering thoughts. This is the first and very important point that I would like to tell you about.

The second thing I would like to draw your attention to is the question of the existence of the soul outside the body. In your question, you are quoting Holy Scripture and, inwardly agreeing with it, you are making a serious mistake. An equal sign was placed between the Old and New Testaments. The Old Testament is the time when they were waiting for the coming of the Messiah; a time in which there was no clear understanding of either salvation or the fate of the soul after death. In a conversation with a Samaritan woman, this was very well expressed: “When the Messiah comes, he will declare everything to us” (Gospel of John, chapter 4, verse 25). The very name Old already speaks for itself - that is, decayed, out of use. In his commentary on the Gospel of John, Theophylact of Bulgaria writes: “Under “wine” you can understand the gospel teaching, and under “water” everything that preceded the gospel, which was very watery and did not have the perfection of the gospel teaching. I will give an example: the Lord gave man different laws, one - in paradise (Gen. 2:16-17), another - under Noah (Gen. 9), the third - under Abraham about circumcision (Gen. 17), the fourth - through Moses ( Exodus 19; Exodus 20), the fifth - through the prophets. All these laws, in comparison with the accuracy and power of the Gospel, are watery, if one understands them simply and literally. If anyone looks deep into their spirit and understands what is hidden in them, he will find water turned into wine. For he who discerns spiritually what is said simply and is understood by many literally, without a doubt, will find fine wine in this water, drunk later and saved by the Bridegroom Christ, since the Gospel has appeared in the last times (John 2-10), one more reminds of the serpent about ancient history (Num. 21:5-9), and thus teaches us at once, on the one hand, that the ancient is related to the new and that the same Lawgiver of the Old and New Testaments, although Marcion, Manes and the rest of the assembly of such heretics reject the Old Testament, saying that it is the statute of the evil demiurge (artist); on the other hand, it teaches that if the Jews avoided death by looking at the copper image of the serpent, then all the more will we avoid the death of our souls, looking at the Crucified One and believing in Him. Compare, perhaps, the image with the truth. There is the likeness of a serpent, having the form of a serpent, but not having poison: so here the Lord is a Man, but free from the poison of sin, who came in the likeness of the flesh of sin, that is, in the likeness of flesh subject to sin, but He Himself is not the flesh of sin. Then, the beholders avoided bodily death, and we avoid spiritual death. Then the hanged man healed from the sting of snakes, and now Christ heals ulcers from the mental dragon (John 3-15).

The Old Testament promised long life to those who in it pleased God, while the Gospel rewards such life not with temporal life, but with eternal and indestructible life (John 3-16). The grossest mistake is to live according to the Old Testament, you need to try to get away from this.

The third thing that needs to be said is the problem of Faith and Knowledge. To believe that your prayers, tears, sighs, heartache, all those services that you order are for the benefit and help the soul of your son Alexander to be cleansed is one thing. But knowing is another thing. We really want to see the result of our deeds right there. Where knowledge reigns, there is still very little faith. Such a person is not yet firm, he vacillates, sways, is ready to fall. Whoever firmly believes does not need any manifestations from that world. In the parable of the rich man and Lazarus, at the very end of it, the rich man asks Abraham: "Send Lazarus to my father's house." Abraham retorts: "They have scriptures, let them believe them." The rich man replies: “No, they will not believe the scriptures, if someone rises from the dead, they will believe it.” Then Abraham said to him: “If they do not listen to Moses and the prophets, then if someone rises from the dead, they will not believe” (Luke 16:31).

There are people like that today who say: “Who has seen what is happening in hell? Who came from there and told us?” Let them listen to Abraham, who says that if we do not listen to the Scriptures, then we will not believe those who would come to us from hell. This is evident from the example of the Jews. They, since they did not listen to the Scriptures, did not believe even when they saw the dead risen, they even thought of killing Lazarus (John 12:10). In the same way, after many of the dead were resurrected at the Crucifixion of the Lord (Matt. 27:52), the Jews breathed on the apostles even more murder. Moreover, if this resurrection of the dead were useful for our faith, the Lord would do it often. But nothing is so useful today as a careful study of the Scriptures (John 5:39). Even the devil would have illusoryly managed to raise the dead (although), and therefore he would have misled the unreasonable, planting among them the doctrine of hell, worthy of his malice. And with our sound study of the Scriptures, the devil cannot invent anything like that. For they (the Scriptures) are a lamp and a light (2 Pet. 1:19), by the radiance of which the thief is revealed and revealed. So, you need to believe the Scriptures, and not demand the resurrection of the dead (Gospel of Luke, chapter 16, verses 19-31).

We do not need to look for visions and phenomena that confirm our knowledge. We need to direct all the forces of the soul and body to the acquisition of faith. God deals with each person in the best way from the point of view of his salvation and fate in eternity.

It is very difficult and painful for you now, it is difficult to survive this grief. It seems to me that you, perhaps, due to strong maternal love, could even without noticing it love the creation more than the Creator, that is, the son more than God. That very attachment hurts and hurts you. Please look at the Gospel of Luke, chapter 14, verse 26. If you look calmly, we will see that God is as he was, and you are alive, and the soul of your son Alexander is alive. Patience to you, spiritual strength, faith and hope in God.

After the death of a loved one, our consciousness does not want to put up with the fact that he is no longer around. I would like to believe that somewhere far away in heaven he remembers us and can send a message.

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The connection between the soul and the living person

Followers of religious and esoteric teachings consider it as a small particle of the Divine consciousness. On Earth, the soul manifests itself through the best qualities of a person: kindness, honesty, nobility, generosity, the ability to forgive. Creative abilities are considered a gift from God, which means that they are also realized through the soul.

It is immortal, but the human body has a finite lifespan. Therefore, the soul leaves the body and goes to another level of the universe.

Major theories about afterlife

Myths and religious beliefs of peoples offer their own vision of what happens to a person after death. For example, the "Tibetan Book of the Dead" describes step by step all the stages through which the soul passes from the moment of death and ending with the next incarnation on Earth.

Heaven and Hell, Heavenly Judgment

In Judaism, Christianity, and Islam, the heavenly court at which one's earthly deeds are judged. Depending on the number of mistakes and good deeds, God, angels or apostles divide dead people into sinners and righteous people in order to send them either to Paradise for eternal bliss or to hell for eternal torment.

However, the ancient Greeks had something similar, where all the dead were sent to the underworld kingdom of Hades under the custody of Cerberus. Souls were also distributed according to the level of righteousness. Pious people were placed in Elysium, and vicious people in Tartarus.

Judgment on souls is present in various variations in ancient myths. In particular, the Egyptians had the deity Anubis, who weighed the heart of the deceased with an ostrich feather to measure the severity of his sins. Pure souls were sent to the heavenly fields of the solar god Ra, where the rest of the road was ordered.

Souls of the righteous go to heaven

Soul evolution, Karma, Reincarnation

The religions of ancient India look at the fate of the soul differently. According to traditions, she comes to Earth more than once and each time gains invaluable experience necessary for spiritual evolution.

Nearby there are souls of close people who have passed away earlier. They look like living substances that emit light, but the traveler knows exactly who he met. These essences help to move on to the next stage, where the Angel is waiting - a guide to the higher spheres.

The path that the soul walks is illumined by the Light

People find it difficult to describe the image of the Divine being on the path of the soul in words. This is the embodiment of Love and a sincere desire to help. According to one version, this is the Guardian Angel. On the other - the progenitor of all human souls. The guide communicates with the newcomer by telepathy, without words, in the ancient language of images. It shows the events and misdeeds of a past life, but without the slightest hint of judgment.

The road passes through a space filled with Light. Survivors of clinical death speak of a sense of an invisible barrier that probably serves as a boundary between the world of the living and the realm of the dead. Beyond the veil, none of the returnees comprehended. What lies beyond the line is not given to the living to know.

Can the soul of the deceased visit?

Religion condemns the practice of spiritualism. This is considered a sin, because under the mask of a deceased relative, a demon-tempter may appear. Serious esotericists also do not approve of such sessions, since at this moment a portal opens through which dark entities can penetrate our world.

Church condemns seances to communicate with the dead

However, such visits can occur at the initiative of those who have left the Earth. If in earthly life there was a strong connection between people, then death will not break it. For at least 40 days, the soul of the deceased can visit relatives and friends and watch them from the outside. People with high sensitivity feel this presence.

Russian biologist Vasily Lepeshkin

In the 1930s, a Russian biochemist discovered bursts of energy emanating from a dying body. The bursts were captured by ultra-sensitive film. On the basis of observations, the scientist came to the conclusion that a special substance is separated from the dying body, which in religions is called the soul.

Professor Konstantin Korotkov

The doctor of technical sciences has developed a method of gas discharge visualization (GDV), which allows fixing fine-material radiations of the human body and obtaining an image of the aura in real time.

Using the GDV method, the professor recorded the energy processes at the time of death. In fact, Korotkov's experiments gave a picture of how a subtle component comes out of a dying person. The scientist believes that then the consciousness, together with the subtle body, is sent to another dimension.

Physicists Michael Scott from Edinburgh and Fred Alan Wolff from California

Adherents of the theory of multiple parallel universes. Some of their variants coincide with reality, others radically differ from it.

Any living being (more precisely, its spiritual center) never dies. It is simultaneously embodied in different versions of reality, and each separate part is unaware of twins from parallel worlds.

Professor Robert Lantz

He drew an analogy between the continuous existence of man and the life cycles of plants that die in winter, but begin to grow again in spring. Thus, Lanz's views are close to the eastern doctrine of personality reincarnations.

The professor admits the existence of parallel worlds in which the same soul lives simultaneously.

Anesthesiologist Stuart Hameroff

Due to the specifics of his work, he observed people who were on the verge of life and death. Now he is sure that the soul has a quantum nature. Stewart believes that it is formed not by neurons, but by the unique substance of the Universe. After the death of the physical body, the spiritual information about the personality is transmitted into space and lives there as a free consciousness.

Conclusion

As you can see, neither religion nor modern science deny. Scientists, by the way, even called its exact weight - 21 grams. After leaving this world, the soul continues to live in another dimension.

However, we, while remaining on Earth, cannot voluntarily make contact with departed relatives. We can only keep a good memory of them and believe that they also remember us.

A little about the author:

"The death of the physical body is a rewriting of all information accumulated during a given incarnation cycle and the transition to the next birth."

V.Yu. Rogozhkin. "ENIOLOGY"

The fear of people before the fatal line separating existence from non-existence gave rise to magical funeral ritual. At different times and among different peoples, this rite often had the exact opposite character. In some cases - a complete disregard for the flesh. In a number of Arab and African countries, the dead are simply thrown into the desert or savannah to be eaten by vultures. The spirit is eternal, and let the mortal body finally serve nature, from which we all came.

In contrast to eastern cremation, on European territory the rite of oriented burial of the bodies of the dead is mainly adopted, which has come down to us from Neanderthals, who, in addition, stained the skeleton with ocher after the decomposition of soft tissues. In Ancient Rus', however, for warriors and the nobility, corpses were crippled.

After the death of the physical body of a person, overwriting of all the mental and spiritual information accumulated during a given incarnation cycle.

This information is stored in every cell of the body, in every molecule and elementary particle that makes up our body. Up to nine days the spiritual potential is rewritten, up to forty days the entire mental experience is rewritten.

There are numerous instrumental confirmations of this. Given that in the higher metrics of the Universe, time, distance and mass lose their four-dimensional meaning, which is familiar to us, the astral plane of a deceased person can simultaneously be in different local points of our space. That is why those who died up to forty days appear in dreams to their relatives and friends at the same time in Moscow, and in Vladivostok, and in Rostov.

The perception of a phantom, called in the common people ghost, associated with overwriting the entire experience of the deceased from everything with which he had to come into contact in life.

We exist in a system, and it is not easy to oppose traditions, such as funerals. There is a fear of doing something wrong. How should one behave in this case?

In the recently released movie "Australia", a look at Aboriginal funerals was given.
About the deceased person they said: "This is the one whose name we no longer need to name".

But the funeral traditions developed differently, and, it turns out, not in favor of the human soul.

The essence of the rite of giving to the earth is to seal the soul of a person, which means fix it in the world of the dead.

But man must be born again! During the year, a person takes his accumulated life experience and goes to a new birth, but our rituals can interfere with him.

By the way, the clergy simply bury their own and do not perform the magical ritual of "sealing the earth."

Funeral is an intimate process of the soul. It should be intimate for family and loved ones: why it is important to attend the funeral of people who loved the deceased. People come, gather, remember only the good, let this soul go. Therefore, they say that one cannot speak badly about a dead person. Relatives remember, discuss, it is clear that they are crying, but this does not mean that you need to kill yourself.

With your desire for good for the soul of the deceased, you help him to be read.

What is the meaning of reading?

From wherever this person was, with whom he communicated, he takes his information, that is, he collects all of it in parts. The soul summarizes all this as accumulated experience. Communication with people and the world - this was the accumulated experience. With this experience, a person goes into a new birth.

Therefore, if most people hold it like alive , the soul cannot leave, it cannot collect information about itself . It was then that the human soul and remains in the cemetery.

Then the deceased can dream as if alive, appear in the form ghost. There is a backlash, again associated with ignorance of the process - they begin to commemorate the deceased: go to church and put a candle, buy food and distribute it, thereby fixing deceased in the world of the dead.

Important photographs of the dead should be put in albums, and not put in a prominent place in a frame. Unreleased Souls through the channels of the eyes they remove the energy of the family, and quarrels, illnesses, troubles begin ...

What should ideally be?

Naturally, children and pregnant women should not visit the cemetery. Ideally, those who want to come should come to the cemetery. Come with the thought not that we are leaving a person in the ground, but with the idea that the person needs to be released.

He leaves this world be born again, and this situation should be treated as such.

Even if at least one reasonable person is present at the funeral, already funeral rite passes easier. Then, during the year, the deceased may dream, but after a year he should cease to appear in a dream.

At the wake according to the deceased, it is forbidden to serve knives and forks on the table. Usually, after the third pile, the companions emotionally begin to brandish knives and forks, and with such gestures with a knife and fork, one can involuntarily inflict an astral blow not only on the companions, but also on the astral plane of the deceased, which is nearby for up to 40 days. If a living person can recover from an astral strike, then it is almost impossible for a deceased person to do this.

Do not allow any dubious grandmothers and strangers to the funeral and to the coffin. There are many associated with funerals. black magic rituals and other people's photographs or things can be slipped into the coffin of the deceased, they can purposefully collect remnants from the deceased.

A ties from the hands and feet of the deceased- it's a classic of the genre. Many grannies advise that you need to take ties from the arms and legs of a deceased person and apply them to sore spots. Allegedly bumps and tumors pass. Why do they pass?

It's like dead water: it just kills information. But it kills information not only about the disease, but gradually about the person.

Why, for example, does the bump disappear because the tie carries information about death. A person is read, and the strings taken from him carry information about this person. During the year, to which you attach a string, it will be read along with the human soul.

And later, the energy of a living person who was treated in this way begins to die, because he tied himself to the deceased.

Handkerchiefs from the cemetery should never be taken home - the principle is the same.

There is such a ceremony when damage is removed, any object must be buried on the grave of a person with the same name as the person from whom damage is removed. Allegedly from myself, to give to the deceased person at the same information address. It seems like the dead don't care.

But the point is that man lives more than one life, and everything that lies in the grave or on the grave is read with this person. And, excuse me, a child is born, on which this damage is already underway, set by an outsider. In this case, in any case, the person who made the damage will suffer.

Any rituals associated with the cemetery are simply not acceptable.

Second point: after the funeral, people walk to the deceased at the cemetery. It must be remembered that a year after death, a person is reborn, and his soul should not be in the cemetery .

When you come to the cemetery, remember that a year after death, the soul goes into a new birth: The person you knew is no longer there.

There are intelligent people who simply keep the grave clean and tidy. But usually people go there to relatives, as if to see dead relatives.

During the period of mass visits to the graves of relatives, cardiovascular diseases are exacerbated in people.

The energy of the cemetery is negative: there is an outflow of life potential.

If a person drinks in a cemetery, there is a certain load on the energy: a person opens up and can connect to any negative program, which will cause an outflow of life potential and problems on the physical level.

Any scratch received in the cemetery heals for a long time, because astral entities are already being resettled. A cemetery is a place where there are unreleased astral planes of dead people. Any festering - this is a connection to the lower astral plane.

In my practice, situations often arose when people, after visiting the cemetery, have small bumps on their bodies. Usually in the area of ​​\u200b\u200bthe hands that come into contact with the ground during cleaning in the cemetery. Such bumps can take a very long time.

After a church service, many people experience temperature fluctuations without any signs of a cold or inflammation, especially in children. Chronic diseases are always exacerbated, because there is a load on the body, on the human energy. The failure will be in that place of the body or fate where the breakdown was originally: where it is thin, it breaks there.

Pressure jumps, purulent wounds are provoked by everything that, in the understanding of eniology, is associated with binding to the lower astral plane: to the cult of death.

There should be no food or drink in the cemetery. Grass, flowers, flowerpots, wreaths, etc. cannot be brought into the house. In no case should children be taken to the cemetery and pregnant women should not go there.

You can not light candles for the repose of the soul of a deceased person, and also put candles for the health of living people.

You will not find a word about the use of candles anywhere in the Bible. They are applied in destructive magic.

The invoked astral-mental plane (phantom) of the victim is identified with a candle and then the candle burns out - the person dies.

In magic, this is called envolting to death!

And if a living person can still somehow recover after this, then the deceased this is unlikely to succeed - he will no longer be able to go into his next birth.

How many people daily envolt their relatives and friends in the churches?! And then they wonder where they got all these misfortunes and diseases from!

Anastasia Natalich. Research Center "ENIO"

According to the newspaper Research Center "ENIO""Centaur's Crossing" (subscription index in the "Rospechat" catalog 53745)

In addition, read an excerpt from Chapter 7, "We will not die, but we will change", the book "ENIOLOGY" by V.Yu. Rogozhkin.

The funeral rite as a black magic act

The rite of giving live cut flowers in esotericism means a rite of sacrifice. In some satanic sects, people are sacrificed to the gods, in others - animals, in others - the sacrifice is made through identification with flowers. Flowers are placed on the altar (the altar is a place for sacrificial rites, therefore, in Christianity, boys are brought to the altar during the rite of baptism, thereby “blessing” the military 5th magical lasso) they put flowers, meaning human sacrifices. It is difficult for the blinded "lambs slain" to see the relationship between the flowers on the altar (the tombstone performs the same function) and the subsequent victims of various catastrophes and cataclysms. That's how it's done, that's how it's supposed to be! And no one will ask the question: who actually needs it?

Water after washing the body of the deceased and the so-called remnants are used to envolt to death, put damage on erysipelas, family separation, etc. Do not allow any dubious hysterical grandmothers to this process. They then use this water, adding it to the next victim's food and leaving your address in the information fields. Water after ablution is just water and can be drained into the toilet.

When dressing the body of the deceased, do not use the targeting of clothes: Vasya's jacket, Slippers, etc. Otherwise, those whose clothes the deceased was dressed in can also go to the next life. It's just things.

Do not expose the coffin with the deceased in front of the entrance for everyone to see. Watchers through the windows can draw the astral plane of the deceased into the space between the windows, thereby blocking his departure.

Do not allow flowers to be placed in the coffin next to the body of the deceased. Then these flowers are thrown onto the road along which the funeral procession is going. This is a ritual to transfer diseases from all the dead to the living. Try not to step on such flowers yourself, do not allow children to pick them up, let alone bring them into the house.

Do not allow strangers to the coffin. Many sorcerers specifically go and look for crowded funerals in order to put a photo or personal item of their next victim in the coffin. The fewer people at the funeral, the better for the deceased and for you.

Kissing the deceased is not allowed. At the same time, disease programs are overwritten for people who are suitable in terms of energy. The younger the human body, the more preferable it is for the migrating essence of the so-called corruption. Therefore, children and pregnant women should not be allowed to the funeral. A dying sorcerer, or rather, an alien entity settled in him, cannot leave for a long time without moving into another person. If no one wants to take on such a burden, then they take apart the roof over the dying. In this case, the moment of death is sometimes accompanied by light and sound effects.

Ties from the hands and feet of the deceased are very widely used in witchcraft. They advise applying them to sore spots, sewing them into husbands' clothes so that they "do not walk." On a magical level, these strings connect the astral plane of the deceased and the living, who has these strings. The deceased cannot go into the next birth and drags the living with him. Over time, those who left the strings in the joints experience pain, varicose veins appear, scandals in families, hard drinking in husbands. At funerals, make sure that the strings remain in the coffin. After removal, they are usually placed under the feet of the deceased. Handkerchiefs, which are tied to the participants of the funeral procession, perform the same function. It's better not to have them at all.

According to the old church magic canons, the earth was buried by a priest when the deceased was still in the house. The earth was taken from the yard, garden, etc., and three times sprinkled with a cross over the shroud, which was used to cover the deceased. By this, the ritual of "sealing into the earth" was performed - the possibility of leaving for the next incarnation was blocked. At the same time, a spell was pronounced: "Kingdom of heaven and earth - down." In other words, the potential of the mental plane of the deceased was voluntarily given to the System, and the astral plane was identified with the earth! The earth is taken from the cemetery to enable envoltation programs for death. This cemetery land is poured onto the threshold, into the pockets of the victim... Everyone knows that the land taken from the cemetery after the funeral cannot be brought into the house and is left at the entrance. The day after the "sealing" it is carried to the church. Thus, "damage" is placed by your own hands on the entire entrance, and on church parishioners. Remember - nothing can be taken from the cemetery.

You can't leave flowers on graves. The corresponding "grandmothers" collect these funeral flowers and put them on sale again. But already with the corresponding witchcraft conspiracies. With the help of such a bouquet, a person can be envolted in a matter of hours: the temperature rises sharply, weakness, vomiting appears ... Contract killings through a magical ritual are now increasingly becoming "fashion". After all, there are no legal rules in this regard. Therefore, it is better to exclude the custom of giving flowers from your life altogether. Remember the "Snow Queen": Kay gave Gerda a live rose in a pot. Cut flowers become "vampires" and live off your energy!.

Funeral music and military salutes cause the most serious harm to the process of reading the deceased through the Information Fields. At the same time, the AP of the deceased, figuratively speaking, is blown to smithereens. Isn't that why they say that the road to paradise is ordered to the military.

In the old days, a fence was allowed to be placed on the grave only a year after death. By this time, the process of rewriting information from DNA molecules, intracellular water and other complex volumetric-resonating molecules of our body is basically over. Previously, mainly wooden fences were erected. And only a year after death. Now, before they had time to bury the coffin, they would helpfully offer you any metal fence according to your taste and money. And then suddenly the "neighbors" will seize your land. And some buy a place in the cemetery for the future. Then suddenly it's not enough. Almost before nine days, many try to put up a monument with a photograph. All this snobbery is completely unnecessary for the dead. In addition, monuments and fences are volumetric resonators and prevent the dead from leaving for the next incarnation.

Constantly in the cemetery one can observe such scenes: a woman, sobbing, hugs the monument and laments: "Vasenka, to whom did you leave me?" Without realizing it herself, she performs a magical ritual of identifying the astral plane of the deceased with a specific monument.

Moreover, often, the more expensive the monument and the more people regret the deceased, the more difficult it is for him to leave for his next birth. The AP of the deceased is forced to stay due to the fault of those who regret his death. Therefore, the astral plane of the deceased clings to the channels of the kidneys at the energy-informational level. The energy of those who regret goes into the lower AP, and in return, sand and stones materialize in the kidneys. In a way, these are the gravestones with which we block the departure of the dead into the next birth. The regretful dead begin to dream at night, calling them with them. If we regret it, then we undertake the obligation to work out everything that has not been worked out for him. We pull his karma onto ourselves. Physicians on the deepest error call it hereditary diseases. There are no hereditary diseases. There is a rewriting of unworked karmic programs from the dead to all those who regret. We ourselves are to blame for this with our hypertrophied love and "eternal memory".

Massive graves and all kinds of monuments, which act as volumetric resonators, replicate the program of death to all living, cause enormous harm to the dead and those who died in wars. Eternal lights on mass graves are made in the form of a pentagram - a five-pointed star, which is a working symbol of the 5th lasso of magic. And be sure to conspire on marble: "Eternal memory to the heroes! We will never forget you!". That is: you will never be born again!

Photographing at the cemetery near the monuments additionally fixes the AP of the dead and replicates the negative consequences for the living. This also applies to the custom of being photographed at weddings at the monuments to the dead.

Often, under the pretext of a commemoration, various products are distributed. "I dreamed of a dead grandfather. Eat this pie, remember it ... Let it be your dream now." If there is no way to refuse such products, then in the mental image that these are just products, remove the "funeral" program.

It has become fashionable in recent years to install micro-monuments at the sites of traffic accidents. By this, our roads are gradually turning into cemeteries and there is an increase in the number of accidents. Remember what the organization of the cemetery on the central square of the former USSR led to.

Some readers may object: entire generations have honored the dead, made mummies and worshiped them. How can one not mourn the dead, not cry at their graves, when it is customary to do so. And everyone's kidneys hurt because the water is bad...

You can argue with foam at the mouth: the wind blows because the trees sway. Who wants to - let him do it. For those who begin to think about the complexity of the multidimensional laws of energy-information exchange in the Universe, these tips:

* ask the dead for forgiveness for regretting their death; this also applies to all those not born as a result of miscarriages and abortions;

* wish the dead and unborn mind, health and happiness in the next birth;

* ask for forgiveness from all people for having voluntarily or involuntarily taken part in the black magic funeral ritual;

* never name children in honor of someone, especially dead ones; with this you make a karmic transfer to the child; from now on - this is his name, the same as his grandfather had, but only his.

All this should not just be mentally said! This must be realized.

This also applies to ministers of religious magical cults, who certainly give a middle name at baptism - an unrecorded address in the IP for the implementation of karmic discharges. This applies to the entire "holy" church that has been bewitched, "sealing" all the dead in the astral plane of the Earth, forbidding funerals and burying suicides in the cemetery for mass replication of the suicide program. About what the most satanic clan has done, hiding behind the image of Christ, is a special conversation.

If you allow the dead to go into the next birth, crime will decrease and people will be born normal, healthy children of Homo Sapiens , and not "slaughtered sheep" for the altar of the System.

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Hello. This is the first time I have encountered the death of a loved one. October 26 will be 40 days since my grandmother is gone. Tell me, please, what should be done? I don't understand any of this at all. Thank you in advance.

Hope

Hope, first of all, the departed need our prayerful support. Most likely, after the death of your grandmother, you have already ordered a magpie for the repose (that is, commemoration at the Liturgy for forty days). Now, if there is a desire and opportunity, you can order a liturgy for a year or six months. On the fortieth day, come to the temple, pray for your grandmother at the liturgy, order a memorial service. Visit the cemetery and then have a memorial meal. Pancakes with honey and kutya - rice with honey and raisins are usually served at the meal. It is better to refuse alcohol.

Priest Vladimir Shlykov

Question to father Alexander Hello, father. And how can the departed not see us and not hear our prayers, if they are alive even after death, and do I think correctly that they know what is happening with us, in this world?

Catherine

Hello Ekaterina. Why guess, we will each find out in due time what it is like "there". Just as we, in our present state of nature, do not see souls, neither the living nor the dead, so the souls of the dead do not see us. And our prayers do not affect the souls of the departed directly, but through the mercy of God, Who accepts our work for the sake of loved ones and eases their lot. The fact that we hear messages about some phenomena of a "otherworldly" nature does not violate this rule, but refers to a different kind of reality. Some saints, who make up one millionth of all mankind, had certain visions, about which the Apostle spoke very well: knows) was caught up to the third heaven. And I know about such a person (I just don’t know - in the body or out of the body: God knows) that he was caught up into paradise and heard unspeakable words, which a person cannot retell" (2 Corinthians 12.2- 4). I saw it, but there is nothing to say. Another reality cannot be described by our concepts. And what is described by our concepts belongs to our world, i.e. earth, but we know that the devil and his angels were cast down to earth. Let's leave...

Priest Alexander Beloslyudov

Due to certain circumstances, my brother was not buried (he died on 17.08). The body could not be kept in the morgue for a long time, because. It was hot and there were a lot of dead people. I know that it is necessary to "seal" the earth for up to 40 days, i.e. until 25.09. I'm afraid to go to the cemetery, because there is a checkpoint on the way, which is periodically fired upon. What can I do in this situation? How to follow all the rules in such an environment? Cry from the heart. Help!

Natalia

Dear Natalya, it is not necessary to pour out the earth from the absentee funeral service on the grave of the deceased for up to forty days. No earthly action can hinder or contribute to the action of God's mercy. What the departed really need is our prayer. When peace is established, then it will be possible to go to the cemetery and finish what you cannot now. God bless you.

Priest Sergiy Osipov

Hello! My story began when my father started getting sick. His illness greatly frightened me. His suffering was excruciating not only for him, but also for me. And I began to go often to the temple to pray for his health. But the Lord took my daddy. My life has been turned upside down. It is so important for me that my father saw my love for him. Not only when he was alive. My biggest fear was that my father would not be able to see Ray. During his lifetime, he was not a very religious person, but he often said that angels came to him, and then he confessed and took communion on the eve of his death. I know that on the 40th day after death, God will determine his soul. But I want to influence his fate. I love my father so much that every day I come to the temple and order proskomedia, requiems... It is important for me where his soul will dwell. His bodily pains are empty compared to hell, there is no death there... I am very worried about my father. I do not find a place for myself, because I am afraid that dad will go to hell. I so want to make him happy, I so want him to rejoice forever, to go to Paradise, where there is no pain and sadness. I know that I have to pray for him all my life. And by your deeds show love for God. But I have a question. Can the dead see us? Do our prayers feel? Does my father know how much I love him? And should I believe in dreams? After all, he comes affectionate to my dream. Today is 40 days. My soul hurts and rejoices, I don’t want to cry, because my dad is next to the Lord, but I really want to see him. I'm afraid that after 40 days eternity will come, and I don't know what it is. I do not like to go to his grave, because there is only a symbol - victory over death. I want my father to live forever in my prayers. And only in the temple I feel a dialogue with him, I feel how he looks. I know that today is a very important day, today he will rise before God again, but I sincerely hope that the Lord will have mercy on his soul and I will find peace with my dad.

Olesya

Hello Olesya. My condolences. Death is the common destiny of all people. And they will sing and bury us with you. But the one who does not die cannot be resurrected. The Lord conquered death by death. Bodily death places a limit on the existence of sin. Continue to commemorate the deceased. Your prayers help the father. He does not see or hear you, but the connection between you remains - this is prayer. Do not pay attention to dreams, you see not your father, but your memory of him. We ask the Lord to give the departed eternal memory, behold, the Lord fulfills our petitions and does not allow us to forget our loved ones. We remember them, so we pray for them and see them in our dreams. The saints called sleep the delirium of the soul. This is how you feel about dreams. These are not revelations or phenomena, just a natural reaction of the soul. God help you.

Priest Alexander Beloslyudov

Hello! My mom and dad died. Mom is September 7, and dad is September 11, 40 days. Can everything be done in one day? And when exactly?

Irina

Irina, a memorial meal can be made on any day convenient for you. But on the very days of the memory of your parents, go to the temple, order a liturgy for the repose and a memorial service. Prayer is the main thing that the departed expect from us.

Priest Vladimir Shlykov

Hello, father! Tell me, please, before the birth of Christ, all people went to hell? Did I understand correctly? I read the Law of God, it says, “When the body of the Savior lay in the tomb, He descended with His Soul into hell, to the souls of people who died before His suffering and death. And all the souls of the righteous people who were waiting for the coming of the Savior, He freed from hell. " Does this mean that all the righteous, holy, pious people went to hell for the slightest sin? Can you explain please! And another question, my husband and I are not married, he does not want to, the marriage is registered, is our life fornication? Do I need to confess this sin constantly? If the husband never wants to get married? Thank you.

Valentine

Valentine! 1. Before the coming of the Savior, the righteous departed were in the bosom of Abraham. According to the teachings of the Orthodox Church, this is a place in hell where the souls of the Old Testament righteous went before the Resurrection of Christ. There was no hellish torment in this place, but there was also no heavenly joy. Abraham points to the state of man in this place when he speaks of Lazarus: “Now he is comforted here” (Luke 16:25). He does not “enjoy” as in heaven, but only “consoles himself” with the fact that, unlike the merciless rich man who is tormented in hell, he escaped the torments of hell; that he found communion with the forefathers and forefathers of the Jewish people here; that from their lips I received confirmation of the ancient promise about the future coming into the world of the Messiah, who will save the human race and lead the souls of the righteous from hell to paradise, which happened after the Resurrection of Christ. 2. The Orthodox Church recognizes the legality of a marriage registered with state bodies. Such a marriage is not a fornication. Just pray for your husband so that he comes to faith and realizes the importance of the sacrament of marriage for Orthodox spouses as God's blessing and His grace-filled help on the path of family life.

Priest Vladimir Shlykov

1. In my prayer book, in a prayer for the living, it is written: "... save, Lord, and have mercy on the Most Holy Ecumenical Bishop (name)", etc. What is the name of the Ecumenical Bishop? 2. Do I need to be baptized at the entrance to the cemetery, at the exit and at the grave? Do I need to read any prayer at the same time?

Tatiana

1. Here we mean the Ecumenical Patriarchate, also known as Constantinople. In our time, the Patriarch of Constantinople is Bartholomew. 2. And this is a matter of your will and desire: if the soul asks, why not cross yourself, give yourself this joy. Special prayers are not required at the entrance to the cemetery, however, out of a pious feeling, you can read the troparion “God rest with the saints” or, given that now are Easter days, “If thou hast descended into the grave, Immortal”, “Flesh asleep” and other hymns Easter. Yes, and "Christ is Risen" can be said to the departed. The lives of the saints speak of the Kiev-Pechersk saint, the Monk Dionysius, who once descended into the caves to the deceased brethren, and exclaimed to them: “Christ is Risen!” And the departed brethren answered him: “Truly He is risen!” At that moment, such grace enveloped the monk that he asked the rector's permission never to leave the caves again and spent the rest of his days there in labor and prayer.

hegumen Nikon (Golovko)

Hello, father! Christ is Risen! My dad died unbaptized. I know that you can remember him in prayer at home. And in the temple, when a memorial service is served or the dead are commemorated at the liturgy, can I silently pray for his repose?

Tatiana

Yes, Tatyana, you can, and even very well! The Lord is merciful, and will accept your prayer as a favorable sacrifice, pray!

hegumen Nikon (Golovko)

Hello! My dad died, he died suddenly, shock and grief indescribable. But the most important thing that torments me greatly is that I did not have time to tell him the main words about how much I love him, I could not ask for forgiveness for some insults and misunderstanding. Now I'm crying, I'm sorry, I'm praying for his soul. He hears me, sorry?

Natalia

Natalya, very often after the death of loved ones we realize how much we did not have time to tell them in time. Now your love for your dad should be manifested in earnest prayer for him. The departed feel our prayer, it greatly facilitates their posthumous fate.

Priest Vladimir Shlykov

Hello. Tell me, please, my grandmother died the day before, and in a month it's my birthday. Tell me, can I celebrate or not?

Alexander

Alexander, there are no special rules on this issue. But personally, I think that memorial days are more important than birthdays. The deceased cannot pray for themselves, and therefore they rely on our and church prayer. So my advice is that until 40 days have passed, there is no need to celebrate a birthday. During this period, it is better to pray intensely for your grandmother, to order her commemoration in the Church. And celebrate your birthday later - a little late, but that's okay.

Hieromonk Viktorin (Aseev)

Dear fathers, in the Old and New Testaments, in the lives of saints, we often find that signs and revelations come to people in dreams. But at the same time, many spiritual books say that dreams cannot be believed, because we are sinful people and are not able to recognize the nature of these phenomena. How do you treat this modern people? Indeed, sometimes we dream of our dear departed, or we see some events “as if in reality”. Thank you for your reply.

Tatiana

Tatyana, notice how many such significant, prophetic dreams are described in the Holy Scriptures? Just a few. And how much do we dream? Whole stream! So, dreams from God are a very, very rare thing, and the Holy Fathers teach to recognize them like this: if a dream brings you to a deeply repentant feeling, to the consciousness of your sins and your plight spiritual situation, then perhaps it is from God, although it is possible that it is not. And in all other cases, even when the deceased relatives dream, but the dream does not change us spiritually, it has nothing to do with God.

hegumen Nikon (Golovko)

Hello. Tell me, is it necessary to make a wake for the deceased, 11 years old?

Elena

Elena, it is necessary to pray for the deceased, no matter how old he is and how long ago he died. The departed are always waiting for our prayers for them. On the anniversary of the deceased, you must definitely pray for him in the church, and at the end of the service, ask the priest to serve a memorial service. Another thing is the memorial table - this is far from being so important, although it will not be superfluous.

Hieromonk Viktorin (Aseev)

How to count 40 days? From the day you die?

Yuri

Yuri, the day of death is considered the first day, 3, 9 and 40 days must be counted from it. It is extremely important to remember that the departed need prayer. They can no longer pray for themselves, so we, the living, must pray for them. Days 3, 9 and 40 are special memorial days for the dead. These days, you need to pray purely for them, serve memorial services and order a church commemoration for the baptized dead. The most important day is the 40th, when it is determined where the soul will go, to heaven or hell.

Hieromonk Viktorin (Aseev)

Good afternoon On August 10, I ordered a magpie for the pope, there was a liturgy and a memorial service, but the pope will have 9 days on August 14. I was told at the church that you can order in advance. This is right? Did I make a mistake, I'm very worried.

Elena

Elena, the commemoration of the newly deceased is very important for his soul. The dead cannot pray for themselves. Special memorial days are 3, 9 and 40. These days should not be moved to another date. We need to remember these days. The most important day for the deceased is the 40th day, when his posthumous fate is determined. So stick to the exact date.

Hieromonk Viktorin (Aseev)

Hello, dear father! June 29th will be 1 year since my mom passed away. We do commemoration at home, please tell me, are they lenten or meat?

Svetlana

Svetlana, more attention should be paid not to the feast, but to the prayerful commemoration of the departed. The deceased cannot pray for themselves, they really hope for us, the living, and for church prayer. June 29 will be Saturday, on this day you need to pray in the church for the Liturgy and remember your mother, at the end of the service you need to serve a memorial service. Petrov fast begins on July 1, there is no fast on June 29, and therefore any products, including meat, can be put on the memorial table.

Hieromonk Viktorin (Aseev)

Is it possible to celebrate a wedding on the day of the death of a long-dead grandfather?

lyudmila

Lyudmila, in principle, you can, but do not forget that your grandfather needs prayer - and who else will pray for him, if not close relatives? The departed hope for our prayer for them.

Hieromonk Viktorin (Aseev)

Can a husband go to a grandmother's funeral if there is a newborn in the house?

Alyona

Alena, and where does the newborn come from?! All this is some kind of superstition. It is possible for your husband to go to your grandmother's funeral without any doubt. But for the dead, you need to pray, both at home and in church. Commemoration of the dead is our direct duty to the dead relatives. The deceased cannot pray for themselves, and therefore we must help them with our prayer.

Hieromonk Viktorin (Aseev)

Hello, fathers! Why did it happen that it is necessary to commemorate the dead and go to the cemetery on Radonitsa? And about the other days of the year, a special commemoration of the dead. On this day, do our loved ones see and hear us better? And do they not see and hear on other days? And why is it customary to go to the cemetery, is it there that our loved ones see us, but not in another place? I thought that in the sky they see us everywhere. Then why do these days lead us to the graveyard? And I wonder how they actually see and hear us - just like we, the living, here? Or is it done more for us alive, so that we remember our loved ones, pray? But after all, as they say about the painful music that accompanies the last journey - to whom it is bitter and so crying, and to whom it is all the same - and the music will not change anything. After all, people who are close in spirit, and not just out of duty, and so they constantly remember and pray.

Ludmila

Lyudmila, whether the dead see us or not - there are many opinions on this, but now, living on earth, we cannot say for sure. Only one thing is clear: an invisible spiritual connection, of course, always exists. Regarding why after Easter it is customary to go to the cemetery only on Radonitsa, we can say that this tradition is of a statutory nature: for the sake of the triumph, joy and greatness of Easter, for some time the Church does not perform public prayers for the dead, but only secret, in the altar. But on Radonitsa, we all go to cemeteries in order to proclaim Easter joy to the dead with the greeting "Christ is Risen!" This tradition is not related to the fact that the deceased, as you say, see us better on this day than on other days, no, this is done to emphasize the solemnity of the holiday. But we must always remember our dead, and an Orthodox Christian, taking the example of the Mother Church, which commemorates the dead every day, also daily, even during the Easter period, at home in prayer commemorates his departed relatives.

hegumen Nikon (Golovko)

Hello! My daughter's birthday (1 year old) is May 12, is it possible to celebrate it? Or is it impossible a week after Easter (before the commemoration of the dead)? Thank you!

Olga

Olga, May 12 will be Sunday on St. Thomas' week. And it is very good to celebrate a birthday on this day. There is no post on this day. It does not need to be associated with the commemoration of the dead. We all have deceased relatives for whom we are obliged to pray, and May 14 will be Radonitsa. Radonitsa is Easter joy for the dead. Do not hesitate at all, and celebrate your birthday calmly.

Hieromonk Viktorin (Aseev)

Hello, father! Recently my grandfather died. He was not a believer, but he was buried as an Orthodox, prayers were read. I began to worry very much about how he would go through the ordeals of the air ... On the Internet, I read that in order for my prayer to be pleasing to the Lord, I must impose certain restrictions on myself, perform a spiritual feat. I was tormented all the time by prodigal thoughts, but here I decided at all costs to stop thinking about them for 40 days. I found on the Internet a huge prayer for the deceased ("Akathist for the one who died") and every day for two weeks I tried to read it without being distracted. But recently I became very ill, and prodigal thoughts enveloped me with renewed vigor. But as soon as I feel better, I hope to pull myself together again and continue to pray. But I'm worried about whether such a prayer will be pleasing to God, after a seven-day break? Will I be able to help my grandfather through the ordeal with such a prayer? If, God forbid, the soul goes to hell, can it be begged from there? And yet, is it possible to pray for the soul after 40 days, and will it help her?

Anna

Anna, for this the Church exists, so that a person comes and repents of his sins. One can be cleansed from sins only during life, through repentance. After death there is no repentance, after death there is a reward that a person receives for his life. As it is said in the Gospel, “the righteous is hardly saved”, but what will happen to the sinner who passed away without repentance? Of course, you can beg for your deceased relatives, but for this it is not enough to pray only 40 days. You need to devote your whole life to this. You need to give up all sinful undertakings, lead your life piously, go to church regularly, confess and take communion, pray for your dead and for yourself. And so all my life. If you live like this, you yourself will be saved, and through your prayer the Lord will have mercy on your grandfather too. The deceased cannot pray for themselves, they rely on us and on church prayer. God always hears us when we sincerely pray. Even if there was a break in prayer, one should not give up, one should continue.

Hieromonk Viktorin (Aseev)

Easter is over, but the series of Orthodox traditions continues. This article talks about Radonitsa - the 9th day from Easter - parental day, a day of special commemoration of the departed. How to do it right.

To visit the cemetery, the Church appoints a special day - Radonitsa (from the word joy - because the Easter holiday continues) and this holiday takes place on Tuesday after Easter week. Usually on this day, after the evening service or after the Liturgy, a full memorial service is performed, which includes Easter hymns. Believers visit the cemetery to pray for the dead.

How to treat the grave of an Orthodox Christian

Cemeteries are sacred places where the bodies of the dead rest until the future resurrection.

Even according to the laws of pagan states, the tombs were considered sacred and inviolable.

From deep pre-Christian antiquity, there is a custom to mark the place of burial with a hill above it.

Having adopted this custom, the Christian Church decorates the grave mound with the victorious sign of our salvation - the Holy Life-Giving Cross, inscribed on the tombstone or placed over the tombstone.

We call our dead dead, not dead, because at a certain time they will rise from the tomb.

The grave is the place of the future resurrection, and therefore it is necessary to keep it clean and tidy.

The cross on the grave of an Orthodox Christian is a silent preacher of blessed immortality and resurrection.

Planted in the ground and rising to heaven, it marks the Christian faith that the body of the deceased is here in the earth, and the soul is in heaven, that under the cross there is a seed that grows for eternal life in the Kingdom of God.

The cross on the grave is placed at the feet of the deceased so that the Crucifix is ​​facing the face of the deceased.

It is necessary to take special care that the cross on the grave does not look askance, it is always painted, clean and well-groomed.

A simple, modest cross made of metal or wood more befits the grave of an Orthodox Christian than expensive monuments and tombstones made of granite and marble.

After a person dies, the vital activity of his body ends: the brain and heart stop working. It is generally accepted that the soul of a person is a separate substance that exists independently of the physical body and dies much longer than a person. Others believe that the soul does not die at all.

There is no exact and definite opinion on this matter. Everyone draws their own conclusions based on religion and personal preferences. In Orthodoxy, it is generally accepted that after the death of the body, the soul of a person lives for exactly 40 days in peace with living people and only then goes to heaven. It is on the 40th day that it is customary to commemorate the deceased, seeing him off to a “better world”.

Therefore, we can safely say that the souls of deceased loved ones are present next to their relatives for the first 40 days, which means they see, feel and hear people. Of course, this does not happen when it is convenient for the souls themselves, but when they are mentally or verbally remembered, remembered, addressed to them.

Do dead relatives see us at the cemetery?

Another question that worries people who have buried their loved ones is whether their souls see the dead when they come to them at the cemetery. Emphasis should be placed on what kind of souls are: the reposed and the unrequited. The first are the souls of those who died naturally or were killed, the second are the souls of people who committed suicide.

It is believed that undead souls are not worthy to go to a “better world” and their punishment is to wander among the living without finding rest. Such souls are often attached to their body, the place where they died, or the grave in which they were buried. It is worth talking with such souls, because it is not customary to pray for them and light candles, and only memories can somehow make their existence easier.

It is also believed that after burial, the soul may not go to the "other world" if she does not want to. She can exist among the living for as long as she needs, if she watches over loved ones and waits for the completion of unfinished business. In any case, the soul is always attached to the body, and if you cannot feel a person in an ordinary environment, you can feel him at the burial site.

What to do on memorial day

First of all, after arriving at the cemetery, you should light a candle, put it on the grave and pray. After that, it is customary to remember the deceased, mentally talk with him and clean the grave.

It is not recommended to eat or drink in the cemetery. Of course, there is nothing sinful in sitting with relatives near the grave. This custom has come to us since pre-Christian times. However, the church prohibits the use of alcohol in the cemetery. Therefore, it is better to go to the cemetery, pray there and talk with the deceased relatives, and sit down at the table already at home.

What Not to Do

It is forbidden to drink alcohol and arrange long feasts at the cemetery. Also, you can not arrange a magnificent feast at home after returning from the cemetery. Relatives can gather at the same table and just have lunch.

It is also not recommended to leave alcohol on the graves. This custom has nothing to do with Christianity, but has been going on since pagan times. Leaving perishable food at the graves is also not worth it. This can attract stray dogs and flies. It is better to distribute Easter cakes and krashenka, and you can leave a few sweets on the grave.

How the dead meet the living on Radonitsa

Souls descend on Radonitsa to their perishable body only once a year and wait for relatives and friends to come to visit them, supposedly on this day they can even touch you.